by Lila Lazarus
Adventurous, fun-loving, healthy, 50-something woman seeks intelligent, compassionate, patient, trustworthy and attentive primary care physician for a long-term relationship.
Hard to admit, but I don’t have a doctor. Last year, my general practitioner went “concierge,” meaning his services now cost an extra $3,000 a year— a retainer fee paid by some patients to avoid crowded waiting rooms and get more personalized service.
While that may appeal to me someday, for now, the extra price tag seems exorbitant for someone I see maybe twice a year. So now I’m in search of. And I’m not alone. One out of eight people are looking for a new doctor, either because their doctor retired or changed plans or because of the quality of care from the doctor or staff.
Choosing your doctor is like choosing a spouse. Don’t take it lightly. It’s a major decision. So, I’ve made out a list of qualities I want to see in my new doc, and I’m not willing to settle. The person I choose will have a major impact on my health, keep me up-to-date on screenings, shots and health concerns, and make sure I take all the necessary preventative measures to stay healthy. So – at the risk of sounding like a cheesy personal ad – here goes.
Wanted: Doctor looking for a real partnership who treats patients with respect and really listens, taking time to make sure I understand. Should be easily reachable and even take emails. Should be friendly and warm with a strong focus on prevention and wellness.
Of course I need to be sure the doctor is in-network, taking new patients, connected to my preferred hospital (St. Joe’s) and within a 30-minute drive. But more important to me is my comfort level. We’re going to have some open, honest and intimate conversations, and I want to be sure we’re the right fit. Convenience also plays a role. I want to be sure lab work and x-rays can be done in the office or nearby. Yes, I’ll do my research on where the doctor went to school and if they are board-certified, but most important on my list is finding a confidante, a partner and a trusted adviser.
And, just so you know Doc, I’m not going to jump right in. I may court you for a while. I want to be sure the location is convenient, appointments are on time and the staff is friendly.
If you’re reading this and have a St. Joe’s doc you love, let me hear it. I know that a good referral is likely my best bet.
Dear Dream Doc, I know you’re out there. I hope I find you soon. Just in case you care – I’m a Leo.
Looking for a doctor or ready to make a switch? Visit stjoeshealth.org to find a doctor near you, or call 1-800-231-2211, and we can guide you through the process.
6 thoughts on “Wanted: A Primary Care Doctor”
Hi, I don’t know how close you live to Mylan, but my Dr. Is the best! Her name is Rene Armstead. When I go to see her, the first thing she does is hug me! She knows all about my family and always has time for questions. The only set back is because she takes her time with you, her appointments run a little late. It is so worth the wait. Hope this helps.
I left a doctor after 18 years. Nothing was wrong..received great care. But, I went with my aunt to her doctor….Dr. Michael Sanson, Washtenaw Medicine, just down the road of St. Joe’s. Best move I ever made. There is not enough room to tell you just what an excellent physician he is.
Dr. Deborah Weener is amazing! She has been my PCP for about 6 years now. She listens to your problems, learns who you are and knows that things affect people in different ways. She is very caring and compassionate. She is easy to talk to and has great availability.
Lila, this was an ingenious idea! I RESPECT AND TRUST my St. Joe’s internest! I live in West Bloomfield and he is at the Ypsilanti/Ann Arbor location. From my home at 14 Mile and Halsted, it is a 35 minute commute. (I do have a bit of a lead foot. 😁) I don’t know if he is taking new patients, but it’s worth a call if you choose to inquire. He is Dr. David Winston. 734.995.0303
I have a excellent doctor and she meets all of these qualifications. Dr attili and Clinton Family Medicine
Mike Krivitsky DO 248-618-6000
Need a good PCP. I think I can help